This has been busy year full of joy, fun and sadness. I guess that sort of sums up life. I lost my mother in February. She was 93 years old and lived a long and full life, but I still miss her. I especially appreciated her when I opened my box of 35 crocheted angel to decorate the garlands in my living room. That was her signature craft and I will alway treasure them. In July, we lost Steve Smylie’s mother. She lived in the same assisted living home as my mother. I’m attaching a picture of us from last Christmas. It’s fun to see the two grandma’s looking so good. That’s how we should remember them.
This Christmas will be the first time we are not heading to Southern California for Christmas. That means I’ve been in Southern California on Christmas for 60 years. Now I really am beginning to feel old. But, we are looking forward to going to Portland to be with our two adorable grandchildren and their very nice parents. Chris and Jess bought their first house this year so we will be joining them at their house for Christmas. I'm excited to be with Maryn and Lucy on Christmas morning.
Chris continues to enjoy his work in insurance. He works less than 5 miles from their house so his commute is easy. Jess is an amazing and creative stay at home mom. Maryn and Lucy’s lives are full of baking, reading, crafts and dancing. I really enjoy skyping with them. I spent 1 ½ hours on Saturday watching them decorate their gingerbread houses. I also read them a few Curious George stories too. I love it when Lucy says “Where is grandpa?” Then she yells for him and screams in delight when he comes. Maryn started pre-school this year and is a wonderful big sister. Lucy is running, talking and full of personality. They both love to dance. They are a delight and so are their parents.
Laurel is a busy 26 year old. When she isn’t working, she is out jogging, swimming, hiking or going to some yoga or pilates class. She is working in Berkeley at a software company. The nice thing about her job is that it is flexible. That flexibility is important because as I write this letter she is on a 5 week trip to New Zealand and Australia. She traveled with a friend for 3 weeks and is now in Australia on her own. But, her adventures don’t end there. Laurel rowed the Grand Canyon with our rafting friends this summer. She did an 18 day trip on the river and she rowed most of it. I guess she is following in the footsteps of her father. It’s fun to see her so active and having so much fun. She managed to flip her raft only once and lived to tell about it.
Since our kids are young and active now, that means that Don and I can slow down a bit. Don is now working about half time. This gives him time to relax a bit more, He loves having his boat and is out in the Bay often. He brought home his first catch of crab this year. That was fun. He also does a couple of long range trips to Mexico. We both like walking at the Marina most days when the weather permits. Here is a picture of the guys after fishing for Halibut. The Ballanti Boys come here most years for what we call Butfest. It is really fun to see the guys bond and compete while they fish.
On Christmas morning we plan to make the Cherry Walnut Coffee Cake that Nancy always made on Christmas morning. Here is that recipe right out of her recipe box. It's really good. Maybe you want to join us by making it too. Because it is hard to read this copy, I have retyped the recipe for you below.
Merry Christmas from Carol and Don Ballanti
(Makes 2 Cakes)
5 to 5 ½ C flour
¼ C sugar
1 tsp salt
1 tsp grated lemon peel
2 pkg. Active Dry Yeast
1 C Milk
½ C water
1 C Butter
2 eggs (room temp)
2 C Chopped Walnuts
2/3 C chopped maraschino Cherries
3 TBS. sugar
Oil
Powdered Frosting (powdered sugar and milk )
In a large bowl thoroughly mix 2 cups flour, ¼ cup sugar, salt, lemon peel, and yeast.